Harry, I’m gonna let you in on a little secret. Every day, once a day, give yourself a present. Don’t plan it, don’t wait for it, just let it happen. It could be a new shirt at the men’s store, a cat nap in your office chair, or two cups of good, hot black coffee.
“I no longer kill spiders now,” she says. “I trap them and release them,
which is what you’re supposed to do. I’m now always thinking about the
point system. It’s ruined my life.”